Rejoice in Him

Claire, Elisabeth, Ginger, Julie, and Rick share thoughts from the heart to the heart

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Relationships

How to Get Better

What do we want to get better at? There are as many things to improve in as there are things and people in this world. The question is, “How?”  Is there at least one way that applies to getting better… Continue Reading →

Leading With Relationships

A LEADER WITHOUT RELATIONSHIPS IS LIKE A LADDER WITHOUT SOMETHING TO LEAN UP AGAINST— –NEITHER HAS THE SUPPORT THEY NEED, THEY’RE BOTH GOING NOWHERE, AND THEY’RE BOTH GOING TO FALL QUICKLY AND EASILY! Leadership, at any level, brings the temptation… Continue Reading →

Choosing Our Battles

What do you do when someone gets in YOUR space and refuses to budge?! That’s what I wondered when our dog Trooper decided MY FAVORITE CHAIR was more comfortable for HIM than his other, usual, resting spots! I understood– it… Continue Reading →

How to Be Thankful For Our Relationships

Thanksgiving—a holiday that’s really meant to be a lifestyle and ongoing attitude.  A holiday that’s getting squeezed out, as merchants and marketers ring in the Christmas shopping tradition the moment the last “Trick or Treat!” has been called out. One… Continue Reading →

5 Key Ways to Develop Mutually-Fulfilling and Enduring Relationships

Everyone needs friendships, whether they realize it or not. The number of songs written on this subject attest to the universal longing for real friends.   We just wish we could “do” this whole friendship thing better!  Whether we enjoy many,… Continue Reading →

How to Get Clarity

Ever try to examine yourself or anything else with a very dusty mirror? I did– saw it was useless– and cleaned the mirror! It’s a face-sized, handheld mirror, and I was using it to examine the back of my hair…. Continue Reading →

Putting Minerals in the Marshmallow

A few weeks ago I did something I’d never done before and never thought I would or could do—I kicked a kid out of class!  Sunday School class no less! The kid is a 9th grader, in my high-school class. … Continue Reading →

Why Quarreling is Bad for Our Health and How to Stop It

 “Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife [or husband].” (bracketed part added) Prov. 21:9 Picture this— You’re walking past your neighbor’s house when you see him/her on the corner of… Continue Reading →

4 Ways to Avoid or Turn Around Dead-End Relationships

Don’t you hate it when you make a wrong turn down a road and see a sign that says “Dead End”?! Does “Dead-End” describe any of your relationships, after they’ve “taken a wrong turn”? –Going nowhere?  Unproductive?  Destructive?  Draining the… Continue Reading →

How to Find Mr./Mrs. Right

You know the feeling—that big dance is coming up tomorrow, and you still don’t have a date for it!  All your friends do, but you don’t! My mom experienced this when she was a grad student.  Too shy to approach… Continue Reading →

What to Do with Bossy People

We’ve all known someone who feels they’ve been placed on this planet to dominate others.  We see them in pre-school, telling other kids who can have what toy.  Later, they end up as someone’s lab partner in high-school chemistry class,… Continue Reading →

What I Learned From a Free Bike Ride

We recently enjoyed a wonderful short vacation to Cape Henlopen State Park in Delaware! One special thing there is that they let people BORROW BIKES FOR FREE! (2 hr. limit) So we did– And I gleaned some life-lessons from it to… Continue Reading →

How to Be The Real Deal

Authenticity — “The real deal” — What-you-see-is-what-you-get — INTEGRITY No posing, no posturing, no pretending. I totally value this in my own life and in those I know.  Or do I really know them?(!) But sometimes things and people aren’t… Continue Reading →

How to Guard Your Tongue

How to Guard Your Tongue How many of you, like me, have ever prayed this?:  “Set a guard over my mouth, Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips.”  (Ps. 141:3) …only to find out that some words escaped that you wish… Continue Reading →

Lost and Found: How Mistakes Can Be Made Into Blessings

A few weeks ago our dog Trooper got loose from our yard.  My fault—I had let him out on a leash for a while, and forgotten to get him.  When I remembered, he was gone. “Trooper!”, I called and checked,… Continue Reading →

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