My sister Pat passed away this week.  When you lose a sibling it’s like losing a part of yourself. I’m thankful for the comfort God’s Word provides, “But we do not want you to be uninformed, brethren, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve, as do the rest who have no hope” (1 Thessalonians 4:13). What is the reason why we do not need to grieve?  The next verse gives the answer, “For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus.”  

The Gospel of Mark further explains those who will be with Jesus as it records the story of children coming to Jesus.  The disciples tried to prevent them from coming but Jesus said, “Permit the children to come to Me; do not hinder them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these” (Mark 10:14).  What comes to your mind when you think of a child?  Perhaps you think of playfulness.  I remember my sister Pat was fun to be with.  One time my grandparents were gone and Pat had a party with a group of kids over,   I was sworn to secrecy not to tell anyone – all I remember it was a fun party.  I did not hear if my grandparents found out but knowing my grandmother I’m sure she knew – she was omniscient! 

Pat was also humble like a child.  Children realize their weakness and their dependence on others.  The world emphasizes pride and power but Pat led a humble life.  Jesus emphasized that “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven” (Matt 5:3).

Children are often sensitive.  Years ago I heard the song ”Abraham, Martin and John” and I remember Pat saying how much she liked that song so I listened to the song and was touched by its poignant message.  She demonstrated kindness just like her mother and her aunt.  Pat loved children and her kindness and gentleness were evident to all who knew her.

Finally, she had a childlike trust.  A trust that was innocent and eager to believe the best.  During her last days she was especially trusting in God for her strength.  One day guests stopped by to see her and she was asleep and in her hands she was holding a cross.  I had the opportunity these past few weeks to talk and pray with her.

For any who are suffering loss take comfort in Jesus’ invitation in Matthew 11:28-30, “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.  “Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. “For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”