Rejoice in Him

Claire, Elisabeth, Ginger, Julie, and Rick share thoughts from the heart to the heart

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Julie Tofilon

How to Reverse and Defeat Counterproductive Thought Patterns—Part 1

Have you ever found yourself spiraling down, down, down, into depression, discouragement, and despair? When that happens, the source is always counterproductive (usually negative) thought patterns, aka “stinking thinking”! But don’t despair over despair! What gets us down can also… Continue Reading →

Beyond-the-Boundaries Grace

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast.” (Eph. 2:8-9) “Let us then approach God’s throne of grace… Continue Reading →

Learning From An Onion

Earlier this week, I took out an onion to put into my sauce– a big, beautiful, one. Nice and firm, it held the promise of so much delicious flavor to contribute to my concoction. But, when I peeled it and… Continue Reading →

Where’d My Favorite Mountain Go?

Recently, I came across Jesus’ words, in Mat. 17:20:   “Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will… Continue Reading →

Leading With Chutzpah

“Chutzpah” – pronounced “HUTZ (like clearing your throat) -pah”—a Yiddish word meaning “guts, nerve, courage, moxy” on steroids.  Word we Jews would explain to our non-Jewish friends like this:  “Nerve is stealing a man’s wallet from his back pocket.  Chutzpah… Continue Reading →

Light in the Darkness

Guess what—scientifically and experientially proven—No amount of darkness can keep light from shining through! Therefore, there is no such thing as a hopeless situation. We can define many situations as hopeless, such as: ~our marriage on the verge of divorce… Continue Reading →

Character is King for Leadership– Part 1

Take a look at any leaders, past or present, who you and others consider truly great.  Now consider those leaders, past or present, who you and most sane people consider terrible.  What’s the main difference? Charisma (dynamic personality)?  Competence (skill… Continue Reading →

Getting Rid of the Old to Make Room For the New– Part 2

Last week, we looked at the rationale behind cleaning and clearing our minds, as well as our desks.  We also looked at four of the “how”s to do that.  If you didn’t get a chance to read that yet, here’s… Continue Reading →

Getting Rid of the Old to Make Room For the New– Part 1

There’s something about the last week of December and first week of January that makes us think about change. Anticipation gives way to realization of a new year, as we evaluate the old year, and consider goals and plans for… Continue Reading →

How to Disarm Discouragement

Have you ever felt discouraged?  If not, stop reading this. If so, read on… With the end of the year coming in just a few days, we’re all taking stock of our wins and losses, successes and failures, goals achieved… Continue Reading →

Harmonious Relationships

Last week a good friend, D., came over, who happens to be an opera-singer quality soprano that has blessed many, including me, with her God-given vocal talent  My husband, a wonderful, sweet, tenor, came home from work while my friend… Continue Reading →

Taking the First Step Toward Reconciliation

How many times has this scenario happened to you– You have a disagreement with someone you care about– Emotions rise, voices raise with them, anger boils over, both of you get hurt, and one or both of you marches away… Continue Reading →

Creating an Adventure out of Advent

ADVENT — This is the season– as we relive the anticipation of God actually coming in human likeness (Phil. 2:5-8), let’s ponder what that means—   Everything was about to CHANGE! Why?   Because Someone was COMING to change it… Continue Reading →

How to Eliminate Frustration When People Don’t “Get It”

How many times have you felt like saying, or actually said, “How many times have I told you…?!”?  You wish people would listen and really get it the first time. A second time can be ok, considering all the stuff… Continue Reading →

How to Keep An Attitude of Gratitude In the Midst of Commercialism

I recently saw a funny-yet-profound post on Facebook—a picture of a front yard with an inflatable turkey and inflatable Santa next to each other.  The turkey, standing upright, had evidently knocked the Santa on its back, since it was declaring,… Continue Reading →

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